Amen to that. Between wives, I lived alone for 34 years. Being an anal neat freak my place was always immaculate. Been married now for three years and have to keep the anal side somewhat subdued. She’s not messy but not a neat nut like me.
That sounds like my son and his wife ....though he tends to procrastinat she’s a by the book gal....so they compliment each other very well.
They both had several years being on their own so they had to learn how to be married..and this under one roof. She learned how to be more relaxed he leraned to be more tidy....it was a good adjustment for both.