Frankly, I think most of the personal accounts of their experience are rather self-centered aborter-as-victim pity parties.
Bears some resemblance to the guy who killed his parents and then pled for mercy because he was an orphan.
In most (not all) cases, the “mother” knows exactly what she’d doing. Somebody point out another crime or sin for which we’re supposed to consider the perpetrator to be “another victim.”
Most if not all sind/crimes have highly negative effects on those who commit them.