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Marriages Have The Best Chance Of Surviving With This Age Difference
Business Insider ^ | 11/29/2014 | MEGAN GARBER, THE ATLANTIC

Posted on 11/29/2014 5:46:24 PM PST by SeekAndFind

There are many predictors of the success of a marriage, among them the having of money, the having of children, and the length of time a couple spends dating before they tie the knot.

Another big predictor, though, is age: The closer a couple is when it comes to their respective birth years, the greater their chances of avoiding divorce.

That's according to a study that compiled polling data from more than 3,000 recently married and divorced Americans.

The study—the overall findings of which my colleague Olga Khazan highlighted last month—used a multivariate model to calculate the factors that seemed to best predict the marriage's chances of success. (Or, at any rate, its chances of not ending in divorce.) Its results were visualized by the data scientist Randy Olson, who created a series of charts to illustrate the study's findings.

(Excerpt) Read more at businessinsider.com ...


TOPICS: Society
KEYWORDS: divorce; marriage
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To: Shimmer1; JRandomFreeper

I bought the house before we were married, as a single person. She got the house.


61 posted on 11/29/2014 7:06:49 PM PST by 2ndDivisionVet (The question isn't who is going to let me; it's who is going to stop me.)
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To: Vermont Lt
What you are saying is that statistics articles like this can't be used to make life decision? I could buy that.

/johnny

62 posted on 11/29/2014 7:11:58 PM PST by JRandomFreeper (Gone Galt)
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To: SeekAndFind

My 94 year old mother knows how to stay married. She married my father when she was 15. He died after 40 years of marriage, she remarried 2 years later and was married for 37 years and then he died recently.


63 posted on 11/29/2014 7:13:50 PM PST by Graybeard58 ( O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together. Ps 34:3)
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To: 2ndDivisionVet

Wait a sec, you came into the marriage with a house and she got it in the divorce????? How did that come about?!


64 posted on 11/29/2014 7:13:58 PM PST by Shimmer1 (Moral culpability lies with the person who commits the crime.)
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To: SeekAndFind

I’ll take two 20s for a 40, Alex...


65 posted on 11/29/2014 7:14:12 PM PST by Organic Panic
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To: MeganC

Ping Megan Dear!


66 posted on 11/29/2014 7:18:21 PM PST by KC_Lion (Build the America you want to live in at your address, and keep looking up.- Sarah Palin)
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To: John W

Wife 1 was the same age as me.lasted about 4 years...wife 2 is 12 years younger than I . Been married for 20 years now.


67 posted on 11/29/2014 7:20:05 PM PST by Ouderkirk (To the left, everything must evidence that this or that strand of leftist theory is true)
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To: SeekAndFind

Seven years difference in our ages but we have only been married 57 years... so far


68 posted on 11/29/2014 7:26:27 PM PST by tubebender (Evening news is where they begin with "Good Evening," and then proceed to tell you why it isn't.)
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To: Vermont Lt
Or the study could be seriously flawed, and any inferences from it are no mor valid than the anecdotes on the forum.
69 posted on 11/29/2014 7:31:25 PM PST by riverdawg
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To: dalereed

“I met my wife at the sports car races in Santa Barbara in 1957 which we won and we got married in June of 1958, 56 years ago.”

There is a novel in there somewhere.


70 posted on 11/29/2014 7:40:31 PM PST by headstamp 2
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To: MIchaelTArchangel

i’d watch it. today’s 18 year old chick will have a boyfriend she’ll get to crump you off earlier than you think.


71 posted on 11/29/2014 7:49:45 PM PST by Secret Agent Man ( Gone Galt; Not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: outofsalt
We were 25 & 23 when we were married - that was 57 & 1/2 years ago. [:>)
72 posted on 11/29/2014 8:00:04 PM PST by Cribb
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To: John W

Almost exactly ten years. It’ll be 17 years for us next year.


73 posted on 11/29/2014 8:01:59 PM PST by Lurker (Violence is rarely the answer. But when it is it is the only answer.d)
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To: riverdawg

No, I am suggesting that academic discussions regarding statistics, or the application f them, cannot be explained to the general audience in an Internet forum.


74 posted on 11/29/2014 8:02:36 PM PST by Vermont Lt (Ebola: Death is a lagging indicator.)
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To: Chainmail; 2ndDivisionVet
My wife is 26 1/2 years younger than I am. We’ve been happily married for almost 18 years - and have two children 9 and 7 years old.

Good for you Chain. I won't say how much younger my Filipina is than me, but it is MORE than 26 and 1/2 years. I think it is great. 2nd Div, from the little research I have done, most Asian women DO care about age differences, but the majority of Philippine women do not. Some do of course, but most think age equal wisdom. The Philippines is different than most, much to my good fortune.

75 posted on 11/29/2014 8:18:06 PM PST by Mark17 (So gracious and tender was He. I claimed Him that day as my saviour, this stranger of Galilee)
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To: SeekAndFind

I think the numbers are skewed a bit by the guys who divorce their first wives to marry significantly younger women. Those marriages have a much higher failure rate for lots of reasons besides the age difference.


76 posted on 11/29/2014 8:28:06 PM PST by Bill Russell
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To: Rodamala

Wow...106? A honeymoon at the home.


77 posted on 11/29/2014 8:47:45 PM PST by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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To: Shimmer1

Had an argument with a lady friend.

Just....oh, so smart.

Wanted to tell me how antiquated the constitution is and at a minimum, the 2nd amendment.

Told her I agree but, let’s start with the 19th and tie the lack of protected speech to its repeal.

Not being a frickin Freeperette, she of course had to ask if I even knew what the 19th was.

I couldn’t stop laughing before I blurted out “Go make me a sandwich and get me beer....or do you want the back of my hand?”...

Seriously. I should find a bar that has some retired baseball player, a mailman, a psychologist and a hot manager.

Maybe I’ll call the her Diane or Rebecca.

“Yeah, that’s the ticket!”

Maestro! Cue the music:
.
“You wanna go

Where everybody knows your name,
and they’re always glad you came.
You wanna be where you can see,
our troubles are all the same
You wanna be where everybody knows
Your name.

You wanna go where people know,
people are all the same,
You wanna go where everybody knows
your name.”

Hope you and Nully had a good thanksgiving.

I think he doesn’t love me anymore.

Never hear from him.

But, winter is in full swing soon and that means snowboarding time....

Xoxo


78 posted on 11/29/2014 8:49:48 PM PST by Vendome (Don't take life so seriously-you won't live through it anyway-Enjoy Yourself ala Louis Prima)
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To: Vendome

He went to his mom’s for Thanksgiving.

By the way, he’s growing his winter fur. (evil grin)


79 posted on 11/29/2014 9:03:24 PM PST by Shimmer1 (Moral culpability lies with the person who commits the crime.)
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To: Shimmer1

What is funny is WHY we had the same substitute obgyn. My mom had to change obgyns late and the night before my husband was born, the Drs wife found out he was having an affair and stabbed him. He was still recovering when I was born just over a week later.

Also hubby and went to the same preschool so our earliest memories are of each other. We have known each other since we were 3. I often tell him ‘you knew what you were getting into before you married me’. :D


80 posted on 11/29/2014 9:09:36 PM PST by reaganaut (Ex-Mormon, now Christian. "I once was lost but now am found, was blind but now I see")
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