Never a straight answer.
Honest to God.
I said, and I quote, “This does not mean parents have to pay for college.”
I think the part you are misconstruing is that I said if parents do not make an effort to make their kids lives better, should not expect the same from their children.
If parents are selfish, and if they do not provide the basic fundamentals that are expected from a parent to a child (Food, clothing, shelter, encouragement, love,etc.) the child is not going to turn out well.
I said, what you reap, you sow.
Now please tell me where that says if a parent dosen’t pay for college they should be abandoned when they are sick and infirm.
You won’t be able to, because I never said it.
I did say that your children are pretty unfortunate to have you as a parent. I cannot imagine the poor example you have provided them—hoarding love, money, and their well being because you did not get it—why should they. You are a sad example of a man.