I am never sure what people will do.
I just know making declarations and being absolute in what you will do and not do to help your family can have repercussions.
You pays your money and you takes your chances.
I had a relative who went to the hereafter full of self-righteousness and indignation about all the life lessons he taught his kids, none of whom had seen him for a few years nor did they attended the wedding. never saw anything like it.
“nor did they attended the wedding.”
What wedding?
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