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The Best-Dressed Way to Say Goodbye
Daily Beast ^ | October 21, 2014 | Justin Jones

Posted on 10/21/2014 10:46:02 AM PDT by C19fan

All-black attire hasn’t always been reserved for coffee shop poets and champagne-sipping fashionistas. Up until the turn of the 20th century, it was almost exclusively a sign of mourning: women publicly showing respect for the loss of a loved one.

But, somewhere between the fury of the industrial revolution and women’s liberation, the tradition itself died out, leaving only a brief implication that lingers in graveyards and funeral services with fleeting significance.

Now, the Metropolitan Museum of Art is revisiting the trend, taking visitors back to black with the debut of the Anna Wintour Costume Institute’s first fall exhibition in seven years. Death Becomes Her: A Century of Mourning Attire, which opens today (Tuesday), explores the custom of mourning dress from 1815 to 1915.

(Excerpt) Read more at thedailybeast.com ...


TOPICS: History
KEYWORDS: fashion; mourning; victorian
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There was elaborate etiquette around mourning from the Regency-Edwardian period. Widows were required to wear mourning clothing for 2 years although after a certain amount of time other colors were acceptable.
1 posted on 10/21/2014 10:46:02 AM PDT by C19fan
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Well the tradition did offer women a brief respite from having to worry about what to wear that day.


2 posted on 10/21/2014 10:47:59 AM PDT by SamAdams76
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What did they wear in the evening?


3 posted on 10/21/2014 10:49:47 AM PDT by tet68 ( " We would not die in that man's company, that fears his fellowship to die with us...." Henry V.)
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To: tet68

Nuttin’, honey.


4 posted on 10/21/2014 10:56:54 AM PDT by Fido969 (What's sad is most)
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To: C19fan

You don’t need to go to the Met. You just need to watch Downton Abbey!


5 posted on 10/21/2014 11:02:41 AM PDT by afraidfortherepublic
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Well the tradition did offer women a brief respite from having to worry about what to wear that day.

Written like a man. How little you understand the complexities! There was "Full Mourning" and "Half Mourning" and "Mourning gloves" and "Mourning hats". You would understand all that if you watched Downton Abbey, or The English verson of Antiques Roadshow.

6 posted on 10/21/2014 11:05:42 AM PDT by afraidfortherepublic
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To: SamAdams76

There was even “Mourning jewelry”.


7 posted on 10/21/2014 11:06:43 AM PDT by afraidfortherepublic
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To: C19fan

We still wear black at funerals.

It’s considered disrespectful to wear bright colors and splashy prints to a funeral.


8 posted on 10/21/2014 11:13:25 AM PDT by SMARTY ("When you blame others, you give up your power to change." Robert Anthony)
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I would love to bring back hats and gloves into fashion! Might also help stop germs from spreading too...


9 posted on 10/21/2014 11:15:11 AM PDT by princess leah
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Anna Wintour Costume Institute

So THAT'S where she gets those bizarre outfits!

Presumably they cut her hair into that ridiculous dyed bob.

10 posted on 10/21/2014 11:18:01 AM PDT by relictele (Principiis obsta & Finem respice - Resist The Beginnings & Consider The Ends)
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Oh...I thought this was about what the Dems plan to wear after they lose the elections!


11 posted on 10/21/2014 11:19:49 AM PDT by gr8eman (Bill Carson...meet Arch Stanton!)
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We don’t. Personally, I’d like to see people wear white at funerals.


12 posted on 10/21/2014 11:20:32 AM PDT by bonfire
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To: C19fan

Where does “The Man in Black” fit in to all this?


13 posted on 10/21/2014 11:55:18 AM PDT by WayneS (Don't blame me, I voted for Kodos.)
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To: SMARTY

It’s considered disrespectful to wear bright colors and splashy prints to a funeral.

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I can think of a few where that would be appropriate.


14 posted on 10/21/2014 12:01:16 PM PDT by Loud Mime (arguetheconstitution.com See if the video makes sense to you.)
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To: SamAdams76

Does this death shroud make me look fat?


15 posted on 10/21/2014 12:09:58 PM PDT by Buckeye McFrog
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To: SMARTY

I wear all black at weddings. More appropriate these days, as they are never going to last.


16 posted on 10/21/2014 12:26:32 PM PDT by Rodamala
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To: SamAdams76

More than that, it told everyone around you that your emotions may be brittle and fragile.

a brilliant friend told me that and it was true and helpful, when the time came.


17 posted on 10/21/2014 12:28:46 PM PDT by Shimmer1 (Nothing says you are sad that someone died like looting local places of business!)
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I’ve told my friends and family that I want them to wear Hawaiian shirts at mine. Please don’t cry.


18 posted on 10/21/2014 12:30:07 PM PDT by Shimmer1 (Nothing says you are sad that someone died like looting local places of business!)
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To: SMARTY

I agree, but I sometimes see shorts and flipflops at funerals, never mind ties and skirts.


19 posted on 10/21/2014 12:31:39 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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To: afraidfortherepublic

And Mourning Handkerchiefs. They go for a pretty penny on ebay.


20 posted on 10/21/2014 12:32:04 PM PDT by katnip (May we always be happy and may our enemies always know it. - Sarah Palin, 10-18-2010)
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