It depends on what the “something” is, too, what kind of 13 year old it is, and the nature of the act (was it outright violence, or was there complicity). And I don’t want to seem callous, but one thing at least seoerates them: boys can’t get pregnant.
But boys can get STDs. Then HIV costs a fortune to keep on suppressing its progress for the rest of your life. I am jist saying that for people in the west everything is pretty upside down.