You are one of them. :^)
Where on earth you get the idea of the topic of discussion here has anything to do with attempting to "live forever and be special" ... is ... mystifying.
Your "reality" is on the wrong channel.
It’s very simple. If there are ghost then some part of us survives death, which means WE could survive death. And not everybody sees ghosts, so anybody that’s got a good ghost story gets to be the center of attention for a while. It’s ain’t that tough to understand, unless you decide to take it personally. Why do you take these concepts as personal insults?