I have had experience with alcoholics/addicts before.
This is exactly the behavior. They say and do things right on the edge of incivility that encroach on others’ persons and property, and pretty much dare you to say or do anything about it.
If/when you do, YOU are the bad guy for disturbing the peace and pointing out the aggressive behavior.
A narcissist???
;-)
Kinda like the current president???
Ohhhh, crap there I go again, using big words, that pretty much makes me a racist...