“I don’t remember great-grandmas generation being like that.”
Because the public expression (or even discussion) of female sexuality was pretty much forbidden by society until very recently.
Deep down most people have always had the same basic desires. Most were just completely private about it and lived the simple monogamous life that leaders of society dictated (at least publicly). Historically there were even criminal punishments for deviating from the norm.
Yet, underground clubs and private sexual parties for high society (powerful men and hot women) were around in your great grandma’s day and long before that.
You can’t really listen to what women say when it comes to sex, only what they do in private. So much of what women express in public is false and governed by male-controlled society rules.
For better or worse, women today are beginning to openly express their deep desires that were suppressed for most of history.
“Which is why I don’t date anymore.”
Fine, stay home then. More chicks for me.
Yeah chicks. But one day you’re just gonna want a chick, one you can trust, and you’re going to find they ain’t out there.
What you describe used to be known as the fringe. Mature ladies and gentleman got together for real reasons, not because that’s what society wanted, but because that’s what they wanted, because they were taught right. And we had societal stability, because people had their heads on straight. And alot of people were alot happier.
What we have now is Lord of the Flies. People just reverting to base desires, never growing up out of adolescence. You can have your toy girls to play with, there’s no appeal in that anymore.