Yeah chicks. But one day you’re just gonna want a chick, one you can trust, and you’re going to find they ain’t out there.
What you describe used to be known as the fringe. Mature ladies and gentleman got together for real reasons, not because that’s what society wanted, but because that’s what they wanted, because they were taught right. And we had societal stability, because people had their heads on straight. And alot of people were alot happier.
What we have now is Lord of the Flies. People just reverting to base desires, never growing up out of adolescence. You can have your toy girls to play with, there’s no appeal in that anymore.
I think there were always few people of that type and most were just fitting the mold enforced by society. They never truly understood why society had those standards, only that others would look down on them if they rejected them. Rules without understating breed unhappiness and many people felt confined. Especially women who could barely leave the home. Mental illness among housewives in industrial society was always common and even talking about it was stigmatized.
Most people are driven by base/material desires and will do anything to feed those desires when they think nobody is looking. It's the same game that's been going on for millennia.
Women for us who see beyond the game and willing to be true partners are still out there. But if you give up, I guarantee your chance of meeting one is zero.