[Harmless Teddy Bear]

Men will never father children unless they absolutely desire it.

They can reduce those chances to near zero by using a condom with spermicide.

For some reason they don't.

Possibly because they have bought the lie that all women take birth control pills (they don't) and that if there is a slip she will just get an abortion (not always).

[thecodont]

Men will never father children unless they absolutely desire it.

They can reduce those chances to near zero by using a condom with spermicide.

For some reason they don't.

Possibly because they have bought the lie that all women take birth control pills (they don't) and that if there is a slip she will just get an abortion (not always).

Where do men get the idea that all women are on the Pill and all will be willing to kill the baby if the Pill doesn't work?

I think that men don't use the condom/spermicide combination because "it ruins the moment" (in the words of some) and some of these men secretly do want to have a child, so don't want to use prophylactic measures.