You are seriously ahead of the game. We just started talking about that stuff.
OK, they’ve been talking about it for months I’ve just been informed LOL.
xsfiance has just enough WOMAN in him to need to be informed, but no time to really do much as far as having input, so we are coddling his feelings and keeping him up to date. as xsteen says, she is fine doing everything herself, she enjoys it, and she is competent organized, but she doesn’t want him feeling left out. he is not the YOU DECIDE AND I WILL WRITE THE CHECK type that xshub is.