[PapaBear3625]

Why would any man want to marry an overused woman who might have decided her sleep-around years were over?

You have a large number of women chasing the same small group of guys they find "desirable". The women get used and dropped (why think of commitment when you have multiple women chasing you? Just move on to the next younger, fresher candidate when the current one makes commitment noises).

The "desirable" guys have fun. The "nice-but-not-rich/handsome/exciting-enough" guys experience lack of success in their 20's, until women hitting 35 decide to "settle". Many men say "no thanks" to accepting a high-mileage woman who will never really be satisfied with him anyway.

[GeronL]

That makes mail-order brides sound like a good idea

[qam1]

The "nice-but-not-rich/handsome/exciting-enough" guys experience lack of success in their 20's, until women hitting 35 decide to "settle". Many men say "no thanks" to accepting a high-mileage woman who will never really be satisfied with him anyway.

And that's why God in his infinite wisdom created Asian Women

[CorporateStepsister]

PB, I wonder what it’s like if the ‘desirable’ guy ends up wanting commitment, but a woman shies away since she herself, would like to have her own fun after years of working hard.