Not trying to be harsh,but: If your daughter is all you say she is, she could exercise more and eat less. Dont blame men. They can decide to date or not date someone for their own reasons.
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YOu are not harsh. Believe me, it isn’t about diet and exercise. She is just big just like some people are tall.
Big like (A):
or (B)
or (C)
or bigger than the above?
If she's big like A, then she's big-but-healthy. If B, then she can lose a few pounds. If she's more like C, then she's overweight.