RE: DeBlasios wife was born homosexual but has chosen heterosexual behavior.
Gore Vidal (RIP), the long-time protagonist of William F. Buckley Jr. (RIP ) at NPR’s the Firing Line, was an openly gay man when it was not popular to “out” oneself in the 60’s ( Buckley actually called him Queer on TV ).
Anyway, this is what he wrote:
“We are all bisexual to begin with. That is a fact of our condition. And we are all responsive to sexual stimuli from our own as well as from the opposite sex. Certain societies at certain times, usually in the interest of maintaining the baby supply, have discouraged homosexuality. Other societies, particularly militaristic ones, have exalted it. But regardless of tribal taboos, homosexuality is a constant fact of the human condition and it is not a sickness, not a sin, not a crime ... despite the best efforts of our puritan tribe to make it all three. Homosexuality is as natural as heterosexuality. Notice I use the word ‘natural,’ not normal.”
“Natural,” as are bestiality, pedophilia, necrophilia... Stimulating the genitals tends to cause feelings of pleasure regardless of whether you are doing it with a German shephard, JonBenet Ramsey, or the corpse of Marilyn Monroe. Heck, Kinsey’s crew was molesting infants to prove they were sexual beings. And that is what you end up with when anything goes. Beings with ticklish body parts. Not humans with souls.
All this QUEER stuff is merely the result of the mantra: If it feels good; do it!