I fail to see anything wrong or immoral or unmanly in a man wearing a ring to show he’s engaged.
I think a big flashy feminine diamond would look pretty weird, but that’s just me.
Just put a frikkin’ wedding ring on and it’s done.
I tend toward much the same.
No prob with the idea of the guy wearing a symbol of commitment just like the gal.
But, I do think that, maybe, a Prince Albert would be more fitting, since that’s attached to the part that’s sealed in the deal.
This woman just loathes any jewelry on a man except a wedding ring. It looks swishy, IMO.