You are using wise tactics there-in the run-up to the cub’s wedding, I studiously ignored all arguments between bridesmaids, shower-givers and the rest, and just attended to keeping bridezilla on a short leash, and doing the stuff I’d agreed to be responsible for-worked out much better that way...
xsteen is the least bridezilla bride on the planet. as xsbaby pointed out, she’d be happy with a few chickfila platters at someone’s house! she LOVES chickfila. the drama is from her friends who want to do the PERFECT shower for her, meaning what they consider the perfect shower, and what they would want.