it is NOT dead AND alive, it IS one OR the other, you simply don't know till you open the box
The other part of what you say is mistaken. The paradox is that in the Copenhagen School, the cat is BOTH. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schr%C3%B6dinger's_cat
“Stephen Hawking is famously quoted as saying “When I hear about Schroedinger’s cat, I reach for my gun.”
I am shocked to learn that Hawking owns a gun.