Women are not solely responsible for children coming into existence. This is 50/50.
So the responsibility for said child should also be 50/50.
The fact that it has never been that way is how we arrived at the culture of abortion in the first place.
Abortion is merely a convenient method. It is not the root of the problem. The root of the problem is the refusal of people to acknowledge the facts of procreation. It’s a 50/50 proposition and always has been.
Everything after that has been an exercise in assigning unequal responsibility (or no responsibility) to the adults involved. Abortion is a result of that age-old excercise, not the cause.
You are caviling. Women are solely responsible for children being ABORTED.
Men have no authority in this matter, and why you have this pathological need to "share" the responsibility when the authority is most definitely NOT shared, I can only attribute to some form of cognitive dissonance.