You are caviling. Women are solely responsible for children being ABORTED.
Men have no authority in this matter, and why you have this pathological need to "share" the responsibility when the authority is most definitely NOT shared, I can only attribute to some form of cognitive dissonance.
Creating a child is prerequisite to abortion.
Again, you either:
Want less abortion
Want more abortion
Want about the same amount of abortion.
Don’t care either way.
This is the issue. If you want less abortion you have to go to the root of the problem. But you won’t do that. Because to do that, you’d have to admit that men are 50% responsible for the child existing in the first place. And in your case (and people of like mindset) you are more interested in shifting responsibility away from one party to the other, even at the cost of creating incentives toward abortion (and before that, child abandonment, caste systems for children etc.).
It is of utmost importance that men bear no responsibility for the creation of children. That is all that matters, nothing else.
Same as it ever was.