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Woman Has Abortion Because She Couldn’t Fit Into Her Wedding Dress
Life News ^ | Sarah Terzo

Posted on 12/26/2013 9:50:46 AM PST by Morgana

In 2005, the Los Angeles Times ran a story by Stephanie Simon entitled “Offering Abortion, Rebirth.”

Simon interviewed an abortion provider named Dr. William F. Harrison and observed abortions at his clinic. Harrison died in 2010, after closing down his clinic because of health reasons.

The article quotes Harrison saying, “I am destroying life.”

Simon described witnessing an abortion on an 18-year-old girl. The author says the girl had not told her parents about her pregnancy. The unborn baby was 13 weeks along. At 13 weeks, the child has fingers, complete with fingernails. If female, the child has a uterus of her own. He or she can respond to touch and has both a heartbeat and brain waves. He can also suck his thumb. (See ultrasound pictures of 13-week-old babies here.)

According to the author:

Harrison glances at an ultrasound screen frozen with an image of the fetus taken moments before. Against the fuzzy black-and-white screen, he sees the curve of a head, the bend of an elbow, the ball of a fist.

“You may feel some cramping while we suction everything out,” Harrison tells the patient.

A moment later, he says: “You’re going to hear a sucking sound.”

The abortion takes two minutes. The patient lies still and quiet, her eyes closed, a few tears rolling down her cheeks. The friend who has accompanied her stands at her side, mutely stroking her arm.

When he’s done, Harrison performs another ultrasound. The screen this time is blank but for the contours of the uterus. “We’ve gotten everything out of there,” he says.

Right after her abortion, the teenager said:

“There’s things wrong with abortion,” she says. “But I want to have a good life. And provide a good life for my child.” To keep this baby now, she says, when she’s single, broke and about to start college, “would be unfair.”

The article also profiled several other women coming in for abortions.

A high school volleyball player says she doesn’t want to give up her body for nine months. “I realize just from the first three months how it changes everything,” she says.

Kim, a single mother of three, says she couldn’t bear to give away a child and have to wonder every day if he were loved. Ending the pregnancy seemed easier, she says – as long as she doesn’t let herself think about “what could have been.”

Many pro-lifers find it hard to understand why some women would rather abort than put the baby up for adoption – pro-lifers tend to think it would be better to adopt out a child than to kill that child. But often the thought of giving up a baby is painful for women, and many women have heard the message over and over again that abortion is not killing.

The article also describes:

Amanda, a 20-year-old administrative assistant, says it’s not the obstacles that surprise her – it’s how normal and unashamed she feels as she prepares to end her first pregnancy.

“It’s an everyday occurrence,” she says as she waits for her 2:30 p.m. abortion. “It’s not like this is a rare thing.”

Amanda was 15 weeks pregnant and has not told her boyfriend about his child. Amanda also says:

I’ve been praying a lot and that’s been a real source of strength for me. I really believe God has a plan for us all. I have a choice, and that’s part of my plan.

As much as pro-lifers don’t like to admit it, many religious people get abortions. There are some churches that support abortion. In a recent Facebook post, Abby Johnson mentioned that a member of her Episcopalian church told her to leave after she became involved in the “antichoice” movement. One study says that many women who have abortions claim to be Christian and that one out of five women coming in is a self-identified born-again or evangelical Christian (1).

Later in the article, two other women give their reasons for having abortions.

His first patient of the day, Sarah, 23, says it never occurred to her to use birth control, though she has been sexually active for six years. When she became pregnant this fall, Sarah, who works in real estate, was in the midst of planning her wedding. “I don’t think my dress would have fit with a baby in there,” she says.

The last patient of the day, a 32-year-old college student named Stephanie, has had four abortions in the last 12 years. She keeps forgetting to take her birth control pills. Abortion “is a bummer,” she says, “but no big stress.”

People on both sides of the abortion debate often say that abortion is an agonizing decision for women. They say that women do not take abortion lightly. Many pro-lifers view women as the second victims of abortion. Although this is often true, it is the sad case that some women do use abortion as birth control.

The clinic that Dr. Harrison works at makes an effort to shield women from guilt. In the abortionists’ own words, “[w]e try to make sure she doesn’t ever feel guilty … for what she feels she has to do.”

The article goes on to say:

For the few women who arrive ambivalent or beset by guilt, Harrison’s nurse has posted statistics on the exam-room mirror: One out of every four pregnant women in the US chooses abortion. A third of all women in this country will have at least one abortion by the time they’re 45.

“You think there’s room in hell for all those women?” the nurse will ask.

If the woman remains troubled, the nurse tells her to go home and think it over.

“If they truly feel they’re killing a baby, we’re not going to do an abortion for them,” says the nurse, who asked not to be identified for fear protesters would target her.

This sounds all well and good, but right after this statement, the article goes on to quote this very same nurse saying to a teenager who is 5 weeks pregnant:

“It’s completely formed about nine weeks,” the nurse tells her. “Yours is more like a chicken yolk.”

According to The Biology of Prenatal Development:

Between 4 and 5 weeks, the brain continues its rapid growth and divides into 5 distinct sections.

….

The cerebral hemispheres appear, gradually becoming the largest parts of the brain.

Functions eventually controlled by the cerebral hemispheres include thought, learning, memory, speech, vision, hearing, voluntary movement, and problem-solving.

You can watch the heart of a 4-week-old unborn baby beating at this link. The baby, even at 5 weeks, is hardly an egg yolk.

Although Dr. Harrison admits that what he’s doing is killing, he contradicts himself later by saying, “It’s not a baby to me until the mother tells me it’s a baby.”

As of 2005, Dr. Harrison had performed over 20,000 abortions. He left practice in 2010 and died shortly afterward. When Harrison left practice, his abortion clinic closed its doors. He was unable to find another doctor willing to perform abortions at his clinic.

1. Barbara Vobejda “Abortion Reaches Wide Cross Section of Women; Study of U.S. Patients Seeking Procedure Finds Many Belong to Religious Groups That Oppose It” The Washington Post August 8, 1996


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To: Morgana

right “Fundie” churches drive women to abortion clinics. And those clinics are owned by Catholics probably.


41 posted on 12/26/2013 12:21:35 PM PST by GeronL (Extra Large Cheesy Over-Stuffed Hobbit)
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To: GeronL

You read the book then come back and talk to me.


42 posted on 12/26/2013 12:28:17 PM PST by Morgana (Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Morgana

Somebody’s definition of “fundie” is pretty off, sounds like it.


43 posted on 12/26/2013 12:29:56 PM PST by GeronL (Extra Large Cheesy Over-Stuffed Hobbit)
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To: Morgana
"Woman Has Abortion Because She Couldn’t Fit Into Her Wedding Dress"

Nothing more need be said: Western Civilization in is an advanced state of decay.

44 posted on 12/26/2013 12:30:13 PM PST by Savage Beast
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To: Morgana

I have no intention of reading the book, or ever taking something like that seriously.


45 posted on 12/26/2013 12:30:29 PM PST by GeronL (Extra Large Cheesy Over-Stuffed Hobbit)
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To: GeronL

Hey I did not write the book I’m only quoting it. Why are you shooting the messenger? To be fair the book did give accounts from all different types of Christian Churches that one just hit me the most because that woman was the most stupid.

Yes I said stupid. The was sat in the abortion clinic waiting room with her Bible praying to God to be delivered just like “God delivered Issac from Abraham”. She cried to the workers as she held her Bible and said she did not want to do this. She prayed and prayed and prayed but did not get up and walk the hell out of there? Are these women so stupid they “obey” their husband right to an abortion clinic table?

She should have walked out and said F*** you to her husband, her church, and kept her baby and found a new church and a new life.

I can’t believe she was that stupid.


46 posted on 12/26/2013 12:38:45 PM PST by Morgana (Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: GeronL

speaking of which you did read this in the article above???

“One study says that many women who have abortions claim to be Christian and that one out of five women coming in is a self-identified born-again or evangelical Christian (1). “


47 posted on 12/26/2013 12:46:00 PM PST by Morgana (Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Morgana

but they are never ever ever Catholic?

Catholics aren’t Christians when they read things like that I guess? I guess that is always a convenient dodge.

There are a lot of people out there who think they are Christian because there are so many “unitarian” and “mathodist” churches that pretend to be Christian.

So I am not sure what your point is.


48 posted on 12/26/2013 12:49:45 PM PST by GeronL (Extra Large Cheesy Over-Stuffed Hobbit)
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To: Morgana; GeronL
Look, all, with something like 1 out of 3 women in this country having an abortion by the time she hits menopause, you can be sure there's plenty of guilt to go around amongst Catholics and Fundies, mainline Protestants and Jews, clergy and laity, women and men.

Rather than trying to figure out mirror, mirror on the wall, who's the most azhatted hypocrite of all, we should be standing outside of those clinics with big ol' 3' by 5' posters that say, "God sent me as a sign to you. No, you're not supposed to do this." You could probably save some little papists and fundies from being knifed to death.

Ya know?

49 posted on 12/26/2013 12:54:23 PM PST by Mrs. Don-o ("I said, Pray (Pray!) Ah yeah, we pray! (Pray!) We got to pray just to make it today." MC Hammer)
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To: Morgana

When my husband and I became pregnant with our 10 year old, he ran into an old friend picking up Gatorade at the store for his fiancee with morning sickness. I thought if was sweet until she aborted to avoid “ruining” their wedding a few months away. Our daughter is 10; their child never had a chance.


50 posted on 12/26/2013 12:55:07 PM PST by conservative cat
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To: conservative cat
That's as sad as it is sick.

As if children aren't the reason for marriage . . . but just some accident to foul up adult beverage parties or tools to make adults feel fulfilled.

Before the holiness of marriage was utterly destroyed by the state to please the gay, lesbian and gender confused crowd, it was cheapened by the easy divorce crowd who discarded spouses because they didn't meet my emotional needs anymore. Selfish bastards.

51 posted on 12/26/2013 1:59:59 PM PST by Vigilanteman (Obama: Fake black man. Fake Messiah. Fake American. How many fakes can you fit in one Zer0?)
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To: Morgana

>> The article quotes Harrison saying, “I am destroying life.” <<

No. Life is a gift from God. It cannot be destroyed. He will always take it back when that time comes whether through old age, disease, accident or murder.

Even in death Mr. Harrison’s life goes on. Sadly it is likely (for I do not pretend to know the will of God) to be an eternity devoid of the presence of God ... a fate that is too horrible for any true Christian to contemplate.

To any women who have had an abortion, and to all sinners (which is all of us), I simply recommend bowing your head in shame and repent, lest you never know real life through Christ.


52 posted on 12/26/2013 2:15:10 PM PST by Nonsense Unlimited
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To: F15Eagle

This is exactly why I wouldn’t date a leftist. None of my close friends. Heck, I don’t think any of my casual friends are leftists. I could tolerate such inanity and stupidity even in a casual friend.


53 posted on 12/26/2013 2:21:38 PM PST by Shimmer1 (don 't argue with an idiot; people watching may not be able to tell the difference)
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To: Vigilanteman

“As if children aren’t the reason for marriage”

This is true for a great many people! They think it’s the “happily ever after” and that getting married will make things “all better”. A romantic notion of love. Really children are just something costly and a nuisance getting in the way of having fun and enjoying life.


54 posted on 12/26/2013 2:45:02 PM PST by Morgana (Always a bit of truth in dark humor.)
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To: Morgana; NYer; Salvation

Words fail me on this story


55 posted on 12/26/2013 3:03:54 PM PST by GreyFriar (Spearhead - 3rd Armored Division 75-78 & 83-87)
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To: Morgana

“You think there’s room in hell for all those women?” the nurse will ask.


You really want to find out?


56 posted on 12/26/2013 3:12:02 PM PST by Boogieman
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To: crazycatlady
I’m more interested in how he never got her pregnant in the first place.
57 posted on 12/26/2013 3:31:12 PM PST by Tax-chick ("Try not to get too far ahead in the story. Spoilers abound." ~ Nicknamedbob)
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To: GreyFriar; Morgana; Salvation
Words fail me on this story

Let me help ...

NARCISSISM


58 posted on 12/26/2013 3:44:33 PM PST by NYer ("The wise man is the one who can save his soul. - St. Nimatullah Al-Hardini)
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To: Morgana

Selfishbness? What about the baby?


59 posted on 12/26/2013 4:32:13 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: GreyFriar

Me too!


60 posted on 12/26/2013 4:33:21 PM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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