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Change Natural Hairstyle or Get Expelled, School Tells 12-Year-Old Girl
yahoo.com ^ | November 26, 2013 | Beth Greenfield

Posted on 11/27/2013 1:24:25 AM PST by grundle

A 12-year-old girl will be expelled from a Florida school unless she gets her hair under control, school officials have told her. Vanessa VanDyke, an honors student and violinist at the Faith Christian Academy in Orlando, tells WKMG that administrators have given her one week to decide whether to cut and shape her hair or leave the school, which she has attended since the third grade.

Faith Christian Academy did not immediately respond to a request for comment from Yahoo Shine. And VanDyke’s mother, Sabrina Kent, could not be reached for comment.

But WKMG reports that the school’s handbook includes a section on hair that says it “must be a natural color and must not be a distraction,” stating examples that include mohawks, shaved designs and rat tails. However, notes Kent, “A distraction to one person is not a distraction to another. You can have a kid come in with pimples on his face. Are you going to call that a distraction?"

VanDyke wears her hair in a natural African-American style, which she says she won’t change. “It says that I'm unique,” she tells WKMG. “First of all, it's puffy and I like it that way. I know people will tease me about it because it’s not straight. I don’t fit in.”

She notes that fellow students have recently been teasing her about her hairstyle and it has only become an issue with the school since her family logged complaints about those incidents. Still, if the Faith Christian Academy administrators won’t reverse course, VanDyke says she will go to school elsewhere. “I’m depressed about leaving my friends and people that I’ve known for a while, but I'd rather have that than the principals and administrators picking on me and saying that I should change my hair,” she explains.

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To: grundle

A private school is a private school.

As BO would say... period.


61 posted on 11/27/2013 6:35:45 AM PST by esoxmagnum (Turtles don't win fights, they just turtle up. Victory belongs to the aggressor, not the turtle.)
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To: Steamburg

Imus is too busy to comment on this one. He’s considering legal action (okay maybe not but he HAS commented on the double standard) regarding MSNBC’s support for Martin Bashir’s misogynistic “potty mouth” fantasies.


62 posted on 11/27/2013 6:36:43 AM PST by a fool in paradise (America 2013 - STUCK ON STUPID)
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To: MacMattico

Indeed, look at an 80’s yearbook from a public school. Lot of hairspray, pumped up, etc. 80’s yearbook from a Catholic school? No way.

But, then going back to my era, the girls in my catholic school had beehives up to the door top, lol. (I’m not sure why, but the Italian girls were masterful at how tall they could get their hair!). There was so much hairspray going on, it permeated the classrooms. Heck, the girls even carried a can in their purse! While the public school girls had short hair (which was considered “fringe” and un-lady like).

Every thing is cyclical I reckon.

But still, a private school is a private school. If you don’t like their rules, take a hike.


63 posted on 11/27/2013 6:42:07 AM PST by esoxmagnum (Turtles don't win fights, they just turtle up. Victory belongs to the aggressor, not the turtle.)
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To: SECURE AMERICA

“This girls hair did not get to this point over night!”

Not necessarily true. She could have been tying it back and decided recently she wanted to bush it out.

“Does the school have a written hair policy?”

They say that they do, in the handbook, clearly stated. This is kind of like someone moving into a neighborhood with a homeowners association, then complaining about the rules. Or my kids friends coming into my home and telling me they don’t like my rules. If you don’t like ‘em, get the hell out.


64 posted on 11/27/2013 6:49:02 AM PST by tuffydoodle (Shut up voices, or I'll poke you with a Q-Tip again.)
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To: esoxmagnum

BTW, I can still fondly recall the smell of Aqua Net, and how romantic it smelled.

Funny, how after so many years, certain senses illicit certain memories.


65 posted on 11/27/2013 6:51:02 AM PST by esoxmagnum (Turtles don't win fights, they just turtle up. Victory belongs to the aggressor, not the turtle.)
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To: esoxmagnum

“But still, a private school is a private school. If you don’t like their rules, take a hike.”

Sounds pretty clear to me but some people seem to think the world revolves around them. They don’t conform to the world, the world conforms to them.


66 posted on 11/27/2013 6:52:58 AM PST by tuffydoodle (Shut up voices, or I'll poke you with a Q-Tip again.)
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To: FES0844

I have been told many times that blacks do not get lice. Lice have a hard time attaching to the hair. I don’t know if it is true, but I have heard that all my life.


67 posted on 11/27/2013 6:54:22 AM PST by petitfour
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To: FES0844

all hair is a magnet for lice.


68 posted on 11/27/2013 6:57:09 AM PST by Chickensoup (we didn't love freedom enough... Solzhenitsyn.)
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To: tuffydoodle

Ain’t that the truth.


69 posted on 11/27/2013 6:57:24 AM PST by esoxmagnum (Turtles don't win fights, they just turtle up. Victory belongs to the aggressor, not the turtle.)
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To: Popman

There is a very real lack of racial understanding here.

Black girls and women have to spend an inordinate amount of time working their hair, just to make sure it doesn’t fall out.

When you see an African-American woman wearing cornrows, it isn’t to make some fashion statement. It’s one of the few hair styles that allows her to engage in sports and not risk losing her hair.

It goes beyond being dry, to include kinks and brittleness. Caucasians don’t have similar problems.

Her hair looks as though it took her 30min-90 minutes to prepare in a ‘natural’ fashion, meaning she didn’t use oils and sheen like treatments,...which are used to avoid loss of the hair or becoming too brittle to brush.

IMHO, she has done what she can, to the point that she is risking losing all her hair. Then she should file a lawsuit against the school for damages.


70 posted on 11/27/2013 6:57:44 AM PST by Cvengr (Adversity in life and death is inevitable. Thru faith in Christ, stress is optional.)
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To: grundle
Sorry, I think she looks adorable.... and growing up in ethnic NYC, I saw my share of female caucasian students with much larger curly heads of hair that would frizz. I have my doubts that anyone would have gone after someone with a mediterranean background if they wore their hair open.

I applaud her parents for not falling into this ridiculous notion that she needs to straighten her hair or keep it under “control.” She's a child, and it looks very clean even with the blurry pic. Given it's a pic of a student playing a violin, I would think her parents are also very concerned she have every academical advantage possible.

71 posted on 11/27/2013 6:59:28 AM PST by Katya (Homo Nosce Te Ipsum)
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To: grundle

From the limited information, it appears that the school is punishing the kid for the parents complaining about her being harassed about her hair.

Not sure why the cut isn’t considered “natural”, or if the problem is the “distraction” part of the equation.


72 posted on 11/27/2013 7:00:27 AM PST by MortMan (We've gone from ‘failure is not an option’ to ‘failure is not an obstacle’.)
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To: grundle

You are correct. The school is private and has the *right* to require this, but it is *wrong* for them to actually do so.


73 posted on 11/27/2013 7:01:00 AM PST by Sloth (Rather than a lesser Evil, I voted for Goode.)
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To: grundle
It is going to be tough for the kid behind her to see the teacher...


74 posted on 11/27/2013 7:10:12 AM PST by Mr Rogers (Liberals are like locusts...)
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To: grundle

Doesn’t she have a race card?


75 posted on 11/27/2013 7:33:11 AM PST by onedoug
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To: Cvengr

See post number 19. Judging from your post, all black women that manage their hair should be bald.


76 posted on 11/27/2013 8:26:18 AM PST by tuffydoodle (Shut up voices, or I'll poke you with a Q-Tip again.)
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To: grundle

AWESOME hair! Quite beautiful!


77 posted on 11/27/2013 8:26:56 AM PST by catnipman (Cat Nipman: Vote Republican in 2012 and only be called racist one more time!)
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To: snoringbear

Huh?


78 posted on 11/27/2013 9:16:28 AM PST by Eagles6 (Valley Forge Redux)
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To: grundle

It is a PRIVATE school. They choose what they want to do. Anything else is gov’t busybody meddling.


79 posted on 11/27/2013 10:24:52 AM PST by cyn (Benghazi.)
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To: tuffydoodle

Post 17 shows them in cornrows.

Many white conservative establishments group that as eccentric hair. If the school allows it, it’s a favorable alternative.

Look into the Black “Hair relaxer” industry if you doubt my perspective. They didn’t become millionaires from White clientele.


80 posted on 11/27/2013 2:26:58 PM PST by Cvengr (Adversity in life and death is inevitable. Thru faith in Christ, stress is optional.)
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