You’re right, you do see conflict among the various faiths and denominations and rightfully so. You would understand this if you were a Christian far better then observing on the sidelines.
Let me say the conflicts are not about which one is right....the conflicts are about ‘TRUTH’... and the infiltration of false doctrines and teachers that have come into the body of believers to distort, deceive and draw then away from the centrality that is in Jesus Christ.
This has been so since the beginning of Christianity and will continue til He comes for us. Jesus said there would be wolfs among the sheep, even to His Disciples who also had to contend for the Truth. And over the years there have also been many “counterfeits” of Christianity who try to look like it, and claim it, but are far from the Truth and doctrines of Christianity. This will only increase more and more.
As for what to do if you don’t know where or which to turn to....??? I would recommend you read your Bible and ask God to show you what He wants you to know about Him and His Son....and keep reading until He does. Too many put it aside too early.
Doesn’t sound to me like finding a “right” church is the place to start for you....rather you might better take note of the Words He wrote to you for the direction you need. But if you’re simply looking for a church to be a part of....even in that you will need His guidance.
BTW......How do you define a Hypocrite?
There are more than one reason for this.
I'd say that a lot are AFRAID to really walk the way they talk.