[EricT.]

Sex is something both should look forward to, not a 'duty'.

Absolutely right. Whenever I hear someone regard it as a "duty", I am horrified and disgusted. It usually means one of two things: either one has a terrible, selfish lover or one has some awful hang-ups instilled by upbringing.

Sex in marriage is for both to enjoy and for both to please one another.

[fortheDeclaration]

Amen!