I loved her, but tell me why many attractive, pleasant women (like my ex-wife) go nuts over abusive men . lounge lizards, and home-wreckers? I’ve never been able to find it out.
I hope you are not including yourself in that list of abuses! (Presuming that your ex-wife was crazy over you at one time.) LOL
Seriously, the blame falls on the “abuser, lounge lizard, home wrecker”. That type of animal is an expert (sociopath) at telling the vulnerable lady what she wants to hear until he has her where he wants her — committed and unable to escape. Then he changes his tune.
it’s the 80/20 rule...