My wife does with me, and I don’t have a problem with it - because she wouldn’t do it if I didn’t want her to.
How I look actually matters a bit in my current life, and when it comes to my hair, she’s better at working out what works for me than I am - I liked the way I had my hair cut while I was in the Navy, but I’m not in the Navy anymore :)
My wife can’t resist doing this, so to avoid the conflict I just get it cut when she isn’t around.
>>My wife does with me, and I don’t have a problem with it - because she wouldn’t do it if I didn’t want her to.
How I look actually matters a bit in my current life, and when it comes to my hair, she’s better at working out what works for me than I am - I liked the way I had my hair cut while I was in the Navy, but I’m not in the Navy anymore :)<<
My wife has to look at me, I don’t. How my hair is cut affects her more than anyone else in the world.
She doesn’t come to the haircutter with me but she gets right of approval.
This isn’t a big deal since I have been getting the same haircut for 25+ years (scissor cut finger high no part).
Hahaha...I have liked for years having my hair high and tight, but my wife prefers longer hair. I find it far more comfortable short.
But she has preferences, and she is my wife. She lets me do what I want, but I have an obligation to listen and acknowledge her views. And she isn’t strident about it.
I could see her going to my barber with me and telling him how she would like to see my hair, but only if I asked her.
She wouldn’t do that on her own.