Nah.....I’ll disagree...I don’t see that at all...unless they’re trying to engage the woman at their level. Woman understand better the woe is me...then men..and men know that.
But males are every bit as good at throwing pity parties as females.
And hold grudges? Oh yeah, twenty years later they are still telling you about how some girl wouldn't go out with them or how the referee blew that call or their boss just didn't appreciate them.
I have come to the conclusion that whining knows neither age, race or sex. The thing they all have in common is an ungrateful heart.