Having lived this, I can attest that rearing and reliance on God does not always result in immediate relief, no matter how Godly or reverent one might be.
In my case, God’s relief came a decade or later, after the tribulations had passed and the damage done (divorce, alienation and a disaster here or there)
Two decades later, the relief came, reconciliations and old wounds healed. God works on HIS timetable, not yours and no amount of preparation can change that.
Couldn’t have said it better myself.