What isn’t mentioned is that maybe 20% of the men are seeing 80% of the attention. Maybe it’s more like 10/90.
Women go for the “hot” guys, and would rather stay home than be seen with somebody their friends don’t “ooh” over. What then happens, though, is that the hot guys get so much action that they have no interest in committing to any particular woman.
Meanwhile, the women hit 30, discover that the hot guys have moved on to younger women, and are disappointed that the “nice” guys they rejected aren’t lining up to commit to high-mileage leftovers.
Yeah, once the odometer hits 100 . . .
BINGO!