Having glass fronts may be helpful then...so she can SEE everything?
That is an outstanding post....thought was put into that...I should heed.
are you sure its cultural? she may have a little ADHD...if I put soemthing in a drawer I forget about it...ha.(maybe I want to forget my paperwork, etc.)
Frosted glass might be a nice compromise. For a less cluttered look.
Some great tips here:
http://www.cozycottagecute.com/2010/08/i-have-pantry-envy.html
This is also a great idea:
http://www.bhg.com/kitchen/storage/pantry/kitchen-pantry-ideas/#page=18
(Brownie points to you for being a thoughtful Hubby!)