You are being very generous, to my mind.
As a social conservative, I think anyone who contributes to the disintegration of the social fabric and social norms is guilty of gross negligence...shameful on her part.
I think she’s getting dotty, although not as dotty as Prince Philip, bless his heart. I’m happy that they both get to see their great-grandson.
Tradition is fine - it provides a link to the past and it adds colour and meaning to the present, but it has to be relevant to have that meaning. If it starts to get in the way it should be reformed.