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Baring that the husband is a jackass or whups her

Good women know their man needs loving

And they make themselves readily available even into empty nest years and try to watch weight and keep looking relatively hot

And any man worth a damn makes sure they are glad they did all that

Baring extreme age or illness

Marriage with no sexual relations.......ain’t much

Its like being buddies.....I guess

But you guys have little kids and sound under 40

All things being equal you oughta be banging every other nite.....

Damn shame with two kids....divorce is irreversible heartbreak for them

You must have had heat 3 years ago....with your baby as evidence

Any suspicions about her?

To be honest.....looking back

Kids are everything to me...and I think divorce is ruinous for them

Wife cuts me off......no good reason....I would get a lover or girlfriend

Carefully....be discreet.....don’t shame wifey openly.....and ride it out to raise kids unless you are to throwing dishes phase of marital unhappiness

A lonely professional married gal makes best affair partner

She will appreciate the attention and warmth but with skin in the game less likely to rat you out or go Fatal Attraction on you

Single mistress is riskier.....much more so....you tire of her she will love telling wifey over coffee

Its not easy but beats divorce on many levels with kids involved.....little ones like yours

This is not new.....when I grew up most successful men had spares....now its costlier

I wish it weren’t so for you hoss

I have been with wifet two for 20 years now....been perfect pretty much from blind date on....

Women are such a need for old school men like me

I do not have your issue but I know men who do and what I described is what they do.....discreetly

Wife has lost interest in sex and they don’t want to harm everyones life for freedom.....think jackass Gore

One bank CEO I know whose wife lost interest ariund 45 has had a married lady friend for 20 years....she’s 50 now

Her doctor husband lost interet in her but she sure didn’t want divorce either

It ain’t perfect but beats celibate marriage....

If you guys have issues you might work on that first....

Man....folks just get weird.....I am truly sorry

Good luck...
Stay strong.....don’t admit crap from guilt....this ain’t about you