That happened to me. I am newly separated. She morphed into that after we got married especially after kids. I hung in there for the children as long as I could. I said enough and I walked out.
Very sad.
I know there are plenty of men out there who could be criticized, too, but it just seems to me that women nowadays are very strident, self-centered, and my-way-or-the-highway. People like that need to stay single.