both are good. that’s the problem. if traditional marriage is good, defending it is defending good, which is also good.
No such thing as “traditional marriage’
This is a made-up term to re-define marriage, which is impossible.
Marriage is marriage.
2 people, i.e., a man and a woman, get married [usually] to raise a family from conception to birth til forever because a parent and child are biologically connected by the same flesh and blood, unless there is an biological impediment and they cannot conceive a child.
Gays cannot raise a family from conception til birth etc above because they cannot conceive by themselves because it a biological impossibility.
Therefore Gay so-called marriage is a lie because it does not fit the definition and purpose of marriage.
It`s a lie -—
DOMA was only bad because it was a poor substitute for a Constitutional amendment defining marriage as a union between a man and a woman. Without it, the existence of states that allow homo marriage will allow the degenerates to abuse the full faith and credit clause of the Constitution and force states that have banned it to recognize it. The degenerates will do this by lawsuit, and the only way to prevent that, is to either pass aforesaid amendment, or secession.