I am sorry to tell you this, but it appears that you yourself are worshiping a crabbed “God” who is not the real God of the universe, nor the God that inspired Paul to write the passage of scripture I just cited.
You, not I, need to repent in this matter.
You have not revealed your theological background, which is now very suspect to me. You seem to be the amateur, not I; I have learned for 21 years in a bible church, and have also worshiped in Methodist, Lutheran, Free Methodist, and Baptist churches.
Are you willing to dare to discover how God fairly and squarely earns His name of “Wonderful”? Go ahead and be crabbed if you must. But your crabbed-ness does not judge me. God does not damn or even judge me for failing to convince you. You are not my judge. But in the Holy Spirit, I can judge much.