[utahagen]

I didn't think you were being unsympathetic, just that you were expecting rational behavior from someone I suspect is not capable of behaving rationally, e.g., by taking down her facebook page. I think she's too disturbed to understand that she must do that, or to be disciplined enough to do that. Her upbringing is one of the freakiest I've ever read about.

[Bob]

I didn't think you were being unsympathetic, just that you were expecting rational behavior from someone I suspect is not capable of behaving rationally, e.g., by taking down her facebook page. I think she's too disturbed to understand that she must do that, or to be disciplined enough to do that.

That's the point where the parent/guardian needs to step in to ensure that the rational actions are taken, regardless whether she wants them to be taken or not. Parents doing this sort of thing used to be the norm, apparently not so much nowadays.

Her upbringing is one of the freakiest I've ever read about.

I couldn't agree with you more on that point. No question whatsoever about that in my mind.