My little grand daughter is 11 years old and she does not understand how women can murder their babies with abortion.
We haven’t told her that her mother aborted her fathers child so she could run off with her lover.
We don’t think she is old enough to know yet.
She may already know at the subliminal level, having vaguely overheard conversations without understanding or fully comprehending them as a young child.
That’s how it worked for my stepdaughter (who was 2.5 at the time). One day as a young teen, she point blank asked about it because she kept dreaming she had missing sibling.
Don't tell her unless you have to tell her.
Losing a sibling, even one you never saw, leaves a wound that never quite heals.
It’s not the right time to tell the child about what her mother did to her sibling, but if she asks what abortion is, tell her.
A child sympathizes with the baby when thinking about abortion. A teenager is apt to be under far more peer pressure to be pro-choice, may put loyalty to a pregnant and aborting friend over morality, and is beset by her own hormones and sexual urges - it is very natural for her sympathies to be with the selfish choice of abortion, which is seen as the self-preserving choice.
Roe v Wade was decided when I was 11 and I knew what developing babies looked like. That’s why I’m pro-life. My children all asked about abortion by the time they were 8 or so and they are all pro-life.
I beg you. Please do not ever tell her. If she finds out through another avenue and then asks you, tell the truth, but please do not be the initial source.
So, your daughter aborted your granddaughter’s younger brother/sister, horrible.