My niece, who has an engineering degree and a job as a Program Manager, had her first child with a wimpy wuss of a boy. The boy’s ambition was to be a comic book artist. He was childish despite his 17 year old age. She had no intention of marrying him. She apparently decided she was ready for a child. The child she had has the same go-getter attitude of her dad who has made a poor father despite his desire to be better. For example, he fed the child on an all candy diet and didn’t take care of the child’s teeth. Five thousand dollars later, it’s all fixed and the father is finally taking care of them when he has her.
The niece has married a good man. The shared parentage of the out of wedlock baby has tied all three parties to a single locale where nobody has a good job. The problems are probably much more than that. I don’t understand why my niece did this and I suspect that she doesn’t either. I suspect that all her black friends (she’s white) were having out of wedlock babies so she felt left out.
ever seen many of these college boys today, they;re all pansies, skinny little girlie fairies.Even worse when we went to Boston and up north
I’m just hoping that my daughter when older can still find a decent man who is not afriad of getting dirty, has brains, works well and for crying out loud doesn;t wear spandex and a helmet when going on a bicycle
That’s stupid to attribute poor behavior to ‘black friends.’
You make every stereotype of conservatives a reality with posts like this.
I have emphasized this point to my teenage sons: If you father a child on some girl, you are stuck with her for life. So just don't. Get a job, get a hobby, get a dog, and if you want to be with someone for life (and have children), get married.