yeah....I tried it with my grand daughters one weekend when they were here. I let them decide when they wanted to go to bed, what they could snack on, etc.
last time I tried any dumb sh!t like that!
No, as in any vote, they get choice A or choice B.
Choice A = go to bed at my time so you’ll be well rested so we can all go the the water park tomorrow or
Choice B = go to bed at you time and stay home tomorrow because I’m not going anywhere with grumpies.