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Is the Christmas card dead?
theweek ^ | December 20, 2012 | Chris Gayomali

Posted on 12/23/2012 7:40:12 AM PST by JoeProBono

Every year around the holidays, countless Americans sit down at their dining room tables to thoughtfully scribble pen-and-paper updates about how they are and what they've been doing with their lives to a select number of friends. These messages are usually written on the back of a recent family photograph (sometimes with Santa hats), before they're sealed, stamped, and mailed around the country, where they're displayed like a trophy over someone else's fireplace.

Could that all be changing? This year, especially, there seems to be a dearth of dead-tree holiday cheer filling up mailboxes across the country. In a recent column for TIME, author Nina Burleigh says the spirit once distilled inside the Christmas card is dying, and a familiar, if fairly obvious perpetrator killed it: The internet. "There's little point to writing a Christmas update now, with boasts about grades and athletic prowess, hospitalizations and holidays, and the dog's mishaps, when we have already posted these events and so much more of our minutiae all year long," she writes. "The urge to share has already been well sated."

[Now] we already have real-time windows into the lives of people thousands of miles away. We already know exactly how they've fared in the past year, much more than could possibly be conveyed by any single Christmas card. If a child or grandchild has been born to a former colleague or high school chum living across the continent, not only did I see it within hours on Shutterfly or Instagram or Facebook, I might have seen him or her take his or her first steps on YouTube. If a job was gotten or lost, a marriage made or ended, we have already witnessed the woe and joy of it on Facebook, email and Twitter.

Burleigh says the demise of the Christmas card is deeply saddening. "It portends the end of the U.S. Postal Service," she writes. "It signals the day is near when writing on paper is non-existent." It's true, says Tony Seifart at Memeburn — "my mantel is empty this year. In fact I haven't received one Christmas card yet.".......


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1 posted on 12/23/2012 7:40:16 AM PST by JoeProBono
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To: JoeProBono

I have received 4 and sent none. Two were from contractors that I had paid to have stuff done. One from next door and one from another mom at my kid’s school.


2 posted on 12/23/2012 7:52:05 AM PST by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: JoeProBono
author Nina Burleigh

Who (we shall remember) most famously (in public print, no less) offered Bill Clinton oral sex for "keeping abortion legal."

So much for journalistic credibility.

3 posted on 12/23/2012 7:52:35 AM PST by Cincinatus (Omnia relinquit servare Rempublicam)
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4 posted on 12/23/2012 7:53:15 AM PST by JoeProBono (A closed mouth gathers no feet - Mater tua caligas exercitus gerit ;-{)
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To: JoeProBono

We only sent out about 70 cards this year - down from 100+ in previous. It’s getting expensive and seems wasteful to broadcast cards to everyone we know, most of whom we haven’t seen/heard from for years and only think of when it’s time to send out cards based on last years list.


5 posted on 12/23/2012 7:54:37 AM PST by trebb (Allies no longer trust us. Enemies no longer fear us.)
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To: JoeProBono

USPS postage rates are killing off the Christmas greeting cards. USPS is killing the Goose which lays the goldeen egggs for the USPS.


6 posted on 12/23/2012 7:55:36 AM PST by WhiskeyX
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To: JoeProBono

I got quite a few this year. However, in past years, I could practically wallpaper a room with the Christmas cards received, so yeah...fewer all the time.


7 posted on 12/23/2012 7:55:45 AM PST by freepertoo
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To: JoeProBono

lol


8 posted on 12/23/2012 7:58:36 AM PST by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: WhiskeyX

Especially when it’s much easier to just post it via Facebook to all of your friends.


9 posted on 12/23/2012 7:58:36 AM PST by dfwgator
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To: dfwgator

Oh yeah, that reminds me, I did get one electronic card from a lady at church.


10 posted on 12/23/2012 8:00:04 AM PST by yldstrk (My heroes have always been cowboys)
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To: Cincinatus


11 posted on 12/23/2012 8:02:14 AM PST by JoeProBono (A closed mouth gathers no feet - Mater tua caligas exercitus gerit ;-{)
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I haven't counted them, but I receive far fewer than I used to. Each year I think "I should cull my list", but generally I keep sending the same ones until the recipients either move or make that big final move. This year I'm really (yeah, right) going to figure out who's still sending me cards and dump the rest.

Probably about half of the mail I send every year is Christmas cards, and even then I overbuy stamps. Next year's October tax payment will still have this year's Christmas stamps on them.

12 posted on 12/23/2012 8:04:37 AM PST by KarlInOhio (I'm tired of being beaten like a malcontent elf so Obama can pretend to be Santa.)
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I will readily admit that I have always been terrible at sending Christmas cards. Not sure why... the time gets away from me. However, yes.. we received about four or five... I think the postage rates have decreased the amount. When you start adding up the cost of food, gifts, etc.. not much left for postage.

There is one type of card that has always annoyed me... the dreaded “my life is so great and better than yours” card. Maybe I’m the only one that gets those. A relative or neighbor writes about their year.. “John and I had a wonderful time in Bora Bora, the kids are all going to Ivy League schools, I decided I didn’t like last years carpet colors so I replaced the entire house with new carpet again, attending the Kennedy Center every Friday night is becoming boring, the new Lexus is wonderful...” I hate those...


13 posted on 12/23/2012 8:05:05 AM PST by momtothree
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To: WhiskeyX

The price of stamps have only risen to keep up with the rate of inflation.


14 posted on 12/23/2012 8:06:15 AM PST by escapefromboston (manny ortez: mvp)
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To: JoeProBono
God Rest Ye Merry Gentlemen
15 posted on 12/23/2012 8:08:42 AM PST by Berlin_Freeper
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To: Cincinatus

A thing of the past like the buggy whip. And another nail in the coffin of the USPS.


16 posted on 12/23/2012 8:08:54 AM PST by dhs12345
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To: JoeProBono

Is it me? Or is that Christmas tree “bent”?


17 posted on 12/23/2012 8:09:47 AM PST by deweyfrank
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To: JoeProBono; All
Enjoy...."tis the season"....Merry Christmas to All
Terry Gilliam - The Christmas Card - YouTube
www.youtube.com/watch?v=NL4D1PcgZd4

18 posted on 12/23/2012 8:10:13 AM PST by skinkinthegrass (Who'll take tomorrow,spend it all today;who can take your income & tax it all away..0Bama man can :-)
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To: JoeProBono

Hallmark give to the DNC. Why not?


19 posted on 12/23/2012 8:11:41 AM PST by bmwcyle (We have gone over the cliff and we are about to hit the bottom)
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To: KarlInOhio

Sounds like me too. I used to send about 25 or so and receive a similar number till this year. I sent the usual 25 and received about 5. Maybe they did not like the NRA cards? I don’t know, but I don’t view the Internet as the same thing as a hand written card, too impersonal for me. Next year I sense I will send about 10 cards and these go to distant family and a few friends I have little contact with during the year albeit we are long standing friends. (my definition of friend is someone I have known for over ten years and whom will not ask for what when I call them for bail at 3AM)...

Merry Christmas to all on Free Republic.


20 posted on 12/23/2012 8:12:14 AM PST by Mouton (108th MI Group.....68-71)
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