I was stunned when i read that post! (The analogy is that someone who doesn’t like cornflakes feels it necessary to pee in MY bowl of cereal!)
Since I was widowed and lost my home and live in a tiny apartment now, I don’t have my lovely vegetable garden anymore.
However, I still grow aloe and herbs in pots on my steps, and love this thread.
A Solemn Day of Remembrance, a Blessed Chanukah, and Merry Christmas to the 500 who love to garden.
Maybe it was because today is Pearl Harbor Day. A sneak attack? I dunno. Unprecidented for the garden thread.
Sorry to hear about your spouse and garden. Granny had to give up the 20 acre farm when Gramps passed away. She had a tiny house and yard in the city afterwards. She made due with what she had to work with.
One thing was a bunch of wild grapes and blackberries, so she still made some great jams for Christmas gifts.
Best wishes to you.