“But cannot pull trigger on Ruger SR9c.....any other suggestions for really really limp wrists?”
Hammerless Smith and Wesson in .38 Special. Read my post 121.
I was also looking for a trigger I could pull easily due to the same problem you have. Gun guy that said get this Ruger, sneaked one under the counter so I could pull the trigger and it is easy to pull. You can do a smooth pull with this gun without jerking the gun around trying to pull it.
First cousin's favorite for CC. His daughter carries one also.
Thanks, Marcella. Will try