Women aging naturally can be a beautiful thing. It’s the “kicking and screaming” via cheesy plastic surgery that turns it all into an absolute nightmare.
I know what you mean.
I have a Sister who was a real beauty in her day but is now 75. She keeps her hair dyed blacker than it was when she was young. She also wears a lot of makeup and is a bit overweight.
Someone, not me, should tell her how awful that looks.
Now Mother who was also a beautiful young girl just aged gracefully. She kept her hair dyed gray because the natural gray was a bit mottled. Mother looked her age but was still pleasant to look at possibly because she was very kind and that seemed to show through.