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Entitlement, or Why I'm a Terrible Tipper
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Posted on 11/11/2012 12:18:55 PM PST by Badabing Badablonde

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To: Badabing Badablonde
The places I go to most often I tip very well @ 20%.

The regular wait staff know what my group's wants are and as we're walking to the table a simple nod of the head gets things moving. They are also pleasant to all - extra cherries for the little one, etc, etc.

It's Hell breaking in a newbie - but the others clue them in real fast.

21 posted on 11/11/2012 12:42:14 PM PST by PeteB570 ( Islam is the sea in which the Terrorist Shark swims. The deeper the sea the larger the shark.)
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To: Just another Joe

Perfect.


22 posted on 11/11/2012 12:42:41 PM PST by Badabing Badablonde (New to the internet? CLICK HERE)
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To: Badabing Badablonde
We are expected to have our meal selections made in a matter of seconds. Hot plates arrive half way thru the salad, and the bill arrives with a convenient line for a diner to indicate the tip amount. Get us in, get the money, get the next party sat.

First, it is clear you have never waited tables. So you may not know that wait staff get paid very little and are expected to make it up in tips. Some do, some don't. And sad for them, the waiter or waitress gets the blame for everything, even those things that are out of their control.

Second, maybe you should eat at better restaurants. The kind of environment you describe is not one that is conducive to service that should justify a good tip, but then it is also one in which the wait-staff is overworked, underpaid and obviously undertipped.

Seriously, tip well for good service and not so well for bad service. Otherwise someone might get the impression that you have a sense of entitlement yourself—that you are entitled to have people work for you for free.

23 posted on 11/11/2012 12:43:17 PM PST by newheart (The greatest trick the left ever pulled was convincing the world it was not a religion.)
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To: Badabing Badablonde

Sheeeech .... what a grouch.


24 posted on 11/11/2012 12:43:49 PM PST by layman (Card Carrying Infidel)
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To: Badabing Badablonde

Sure, unless of course the waitress is one of the millions who have worked their way through school doing so...or a mother whose husband took off...or married mother of six trying to make ends meet...or a hard working person of limited intelligence...or a laid-off corporate employee who would rather work serving pompous, cheap ingrates than take welfare.


25 posted on 11/11/2012 12:44:27 PM PST by wtc911 (Amigo - you've been had.)
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To: Just another Joe
If the service is adequate I leave between a 5% to 10% tip.

Wow, that's pathetic.

It's my money, for now, and I'll redistribute it how I see fit.

Then I suggest you redistribute it to the grocery store and cook your own food. Wait service relies on tips to make their living. And stop couching your incredible cheapness as some political statement; it's a disservice to conservatives.

26 posted on 11/11/2012 12:45:07 PM PST by NittanyLion
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To: Badabing Badablonde
I consider tipping as a way to share my blessings.
I tend to tip generously for good service and if I get poor service I will speak to the staff to explain why I'm not. Some call this a teachable moment? If I get bad or rude service I will explain my concerns to the manager as their business is impacted.
27 posted on 11/11/2012 12:45:08 PM PST by outofsalt ("If History teaches us anything it's that history rarely teaches us anything")
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To: newheart

Exactly. Badablonde seems to think she’s entitled to someone else’s labor.

Maybe she’s a communist?


28 posted on 11/11/2012 12:46:01 PM PST by Yardstick
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To: Joe 6-pack

I pay for the service they give me, not for their life circumstances. If they want a good tip, they should earn it.


29 posted on 11/11/2012 12:46:47 PM PST by Badabing Badablonde (New to the internet? CLICK HERE)
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To: tflabo

You actually stiffed a waitress because of her perceived politics...and you’re proud of it? Pathetic.


30 posted on 11/11/2012 12:46:56 PM PST by wtc911 (Amigo - you've been had.)
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To: Badabing Badablonde

How about the restaurants that sneak a 20% gratuity into your bill and THEN add a line for additional tip?


31 posted on 11/11/2012 12:48:56 PM PST by youthphil
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To: ozaukeemom

As it should be.


32 posted on 11/11/2012 12:48:56 PM PST by wtc911 (Amigo - you've been had.)
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To: Yardstick
Maybe she’s a communist?

Or maybe just a blonde. (I will duck out now before the plates start flying. And I apologize if I have offended anyone who is a member of the blonde persuasion.)

33 posted on 11/11/2012 12:49:03 PM PST by newheart (The greatest trick the left ever pulled was convincing the world it was not a religion.)
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To: Mamzelle

Pretty much, which is why I have an opinion on this. It’s my job to travel all over the US, stay in hotels, eat in restaurants, and be at the mercy of the service industry. I refuse to be guilted into the entitlement attitude that is degrading our country.


34 posted on 11/11/2012 12:50:21 PM PST by Badabing Badablonde (New to the internet? CLICK HERE)
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To: Badabing Badablonde

No.. You don’t have to go out to eat at a restaurant.


35 posted on 11/11/2012 12:51:40 PM PST by Hildy (hen the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser." - Socrates)
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To: Badabing Badablonde
"I pay for the service they give me, not for their life circumstances."
36 posted on 11/11/2012 12:52:35 PM PST by Joe 6-pack (Que me amat, amet et canem meum)
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To: Gigantor

The majority odd restaurants don’t split the tips properly. They split them evenly, socialist style... When i tip, it’s in CASH and i slip into the waitress/waiters hands or pocket and tell then it is THEIRS and NOT to share it.


37 posted on 11/11/2012 12:54:55 PM PST by DrewsMum
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To: Badabing Badablonde
"I pay for the service they give me, not for their life circumstances. If they want a good tip, they should earn it."

Is your employment on your home page current and correct? If so, you get paid by a whole lot of people, myself included, who have never received any service from you or your agency. If we had the option of adopting your philosophy, you'd probably find yourself waiting tables too.

38 posted on 11/11/2012 12:55:16 PM PST by Joe 6-pack (Que me amat, amet et canem meum)
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To: Badabing Badablonde
It’s my job to travel all over the US, stay in hotels, eat in restaurants...

+++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++

Yep, and according to your profile it's all paid for by us taxpayers.

Talk about entitlement queens...you take the cake.

39 posted on 11/11/2012 12:55:16 PM PST by wtc911 (Amigo - you've been had.)
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To: wtc911

No kidding. The poster should just stay home...


40 posted on 11/11/2012 12:56:12 PM PST by stormer
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