Waste of money, and tons of stress.
Have a simple service, and share some cake.
We drove to Vermont a couple of weeks before Christmas. Stayed at a B&B. The housekeeper was the town Justice of the peace and the Inn owner stood as a witness. Beautiful evening ceremony in a dark paneled library in front of a huge fire. The chef at the Inn made us a small pear and white chocolate cake and we went out for dinner. Stayed a week, lots of snow, no phones, friendly people. Loved it and would not have traded it for anything.