You lose a LOT when you cash in the 401K/Retirement funds. Talk with a lawyer and an accountant before you take such steps. Sorry about the job.
Never give up,never give in!
A close friend who was laid off at 65 just got hired - months later- in a better job.
Good luck, and prayers for you and the family.
I believe there are ‘hardship’ provisions which, if you qualify, the penalty is waived. I’d check into this. Do it before that Obastard gets re-elected.