Posted on 04/21/2012 12:42:50 AM PDT by mamelukesabre
I am a middle aged single guy with no ex wives and no kids. I've never been married and never knocked up no one. For the last 12 years I've been trying hard to find that perfect someone. You may remember me having threads on this very same topic. I recently had a couple of relationships with young asian girls and posted about it...only to have those threads yanked by the FR mods.
The asian girlfriend I broke up with and posted about is still around but we don't get along that well anymore. I found another asian girl younger than her but she is no longer in the picture. She decided I was too old. She probably had a point since she was only 26. Please see my previous threads about my physical fitness. I have been working my ass off to look 15 years younger than my age and I think I have pulled it off except for baldness.
Tonight I met a new girl and I am already in love. There is just one problem. She is a 20 year old law student from Estonia. She is short and chubby and wears very thick glasses. She is very old for her age if you know what I mean. I spent the evening dancing with and drinking with her friends.
We've already made arrangements for the future. I know I am a complete idiot. I can't help it. I will be working out extra hard now and suffering more from tendonitis than I ever have in my life.
I actually wish I really was making this up.
Flame away
This girl is looking for a green card. Yer up sucker.
They sure are picking a funny way to bring back their “prodigal son”.
I hope they ease up on you a bit.
It’s not doing either of you any good, as it stands.
Is there any chance you and the lady could get married?
My situation was the same as yours and though my parents didn’t say it ~before~, my dad did comment “at least you’re not living in sin anymore.” afterwards.
[as though his life were perfect and righteous]
Using Occam’s Chainsaw, I’d suggest that as the simplest solution.
You get tax deductions, too...:)
I will be turning 42 this July. I have never been married and have no kids.
For the past 5 years, I have taken myself OUT of the “dating game” (now a days, it’s more like the “sex games”) and have been celibate.
If I am meant to find the one, He will guide me. Until then, I will remain the happy gal (for the most part) because I no longer live with the pressures or manipulation of men trying to bed me.
If they couldn’t “have me” within 2-3 dates, I was dumped. Never mind all the slapping and “get off of me” I endured while dating. They seemed to have grown a few extra arms at the end of our date! All this free sex and everyone doing everyone has put such a crimp on a once innocent dating ritual.
The NAGS have ruined dating for all girls. If you’re not a slut, then something is wrong with you.
To them, I’m one effed up gal!!! The NAGS can take their misery and stds and shove em you know where.
You just made me change my pants.
“the greasy gray ponytail indicates “I have enough money not to give a rat’s axe”.”
Or, “I have a bitchin’ big ass Harley and have survived the road long enough to -earn- that greasy gray ponytail.”
[Turn on]
It’s all about perspective....:)
IMO in the last century the war on prostitution has created a problem. The lack of affordable, quality prostitution has made guys go for the gusto more often and earlier due to pent up sex release that would have been otherwise satiated by a professional. Flame on.
You misspelled sluts.
;D
Well, aren’t we generous to give them something actually interesting to discuss, for a change.
:)
[poor little desperate things]
Are you saying that in times past, all men had sex with prostitutes prior to marriage?
Are you saying that modern women have no choice but to become essentially prostitutes now, if they want any sort of dating life at all?
No flame coming.
In regards to your "pent up sex release", isn't that what your right hand is for? ;)
Prostitution is an ugly business. Most of these gals were sexually abused and think sex is love. Unfortunately, it seems they never put 2+2 together. They just go on abusing themselves.
I find it sad.
PS: Rosey Palmer gets old after awhile.....
If they couldn’t “have me” within 2-3 dates, I was dumped. Never mind all the slapping and “get off of me” I endured while dating. They seemed to have grown a few extra arms at the end of our date! All this free sex and everyone doing everyone has put such a crimp on a once innocent dating ritual.
Instead of dating with strangers why not go out and do activities you enjoy and meet men there? Become friends first. I have dated women in the past but all three long term GF's I have ever had, we met through same hobbies or other similar interest and we were always friends at first.
A guy I know volunteers at a local state park a few Saturday's each month. Met a woman there doing the same thing, got to know her after a while working together and now they are together.
"and it was all socially tolerated for the most part."
And look at where "socially tolerated" has taken our once beautiful country.
:). Yet clearly you did a million thing right to capture that girl’s heart that pursued you. :). Many blessings and much continued joy to you and your beloved of over 51 years. I am sure however that SHE could give us ladies all sorts of courting advice given her success!
So if you are happy with the trade off then all is good. If you feel you are missing something I hope you get out there and get back in the game.
Well, I don’t date anymore. Prior to, I have been set up by friends/family. I figured it would be safe since they know the guy.
I was wrong. As of becoming friends first, men in this generation do not want to take the time to do so.
Funny story. I went out to lunch yesterday, BY MYSELF, which I have never done before. I met a man sitting next to me and we just started chatting.
Long story short, after talking to this man (whom I would never think of as my type, my fault), I found him to have values closely related to mine.
He asked for my number so we could go out for lunch/dinner and before I agreed to do so I told him I am available, but celibate. Told him I have no problem to start a friendship; however, he knew exactly where I stood.
I even told him if he was looking for sex, I was not his girl. He laughed, I laughed....and he asked for my number anyway.
Now it could be the “chase” that may excite him, however, I am absolutely concrete in my beliefs.
The reason I decided to exchange numbers with him? He wasn’t trying to pick me up. We just happened to sit next to each other and started yapping.
Any stranger I speak with now a days, I let them know upfront, of course when appropriate, who I am and where I stand.
No way IN HELL would I EVER date a lib. Most men and women, when they first meet talk about themselves.
I go right into my politics. I need to know who you are and where you stand. VERY off putting to a lot of people, but guess what....I don’t give a flyin you know what.
You seem to be wishing to acquire feminine candy. Have fun. These young girls should know the score. Would I want my daughter dating you? Hell no. But there are lots of girls with authority or daddy complexes.
This is not a life partner love situation. This is you wanting some sort of fantasy toy. You are seeking subservience. With that said, it’s your life so have fun. Don’t make any children.
I was however quoting a study. Not my own opinion. Who wouldn't want the prettiest parcel on the block?
At some point men want an excellent combo of what they want that best serves them not what he world tells them to want. I don't have to tell you that though as you are a man. :).
That’s the funny thing about it. I don’t feel like I am missing out on something.
I actually feel relief! That 10,000 pound monkey I carried on my back for so long is gone.
All I feel is FREEDOM!
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