Posted on 04/13/2012 7:14:20 PM PDT by se_ohio_young_conservative
I have not been posting as much on FR lately. I have been dealing with a lot of health issues in recent months. A lot of it is personal and some of my friends don't even know about about everything im dealing with. I have not wanted to be seen as whining or overwelming someone with my own problems.
I initially rejected the idea. But I have decided that spening 6 to 12 months in a nursing home is the best thing for me right now. I can focus on outpaitent therapy and get the care I need.
I am having a lot of problems with my muscles and joints (related to R.A.) I have stomach probs/bathroom accidents and it is getting more and more difficult to take care of my own hygine. plus other personal probs... A lot of this takes a toll on me emotionally as well..
I will feel weird staying in a nursing home at the age of 26. I am a father, im a husband. But we believe it is the best thing for me right now. to hopefully improve physically and emotionally..
ty for keeping me in your prayers
Your will and determination to improve, combined with the great advantage of youth, should give you optimism for your future. Best of everything to you.
God’s many blessings and healing to you and your family. Speedy recovery! Make sure to check in on us when you are able!
If there is a quality Catholic or Lutheran home (Catholic — Providence in your area?) check it out and if you like it — go there.
God bless you and your family as you deal with the rheumatoid arthritis and your other problems.
My prayers are with you.
Step by Step
by Don Sicklesteel
He does not lead me year by year,
Nor even day by day.
But step by step my path unfolds,
As my Lord directs my way.
Tomorrow’s plans I do not know,
I only know the minute,
But He will say, “This is the way,
Just have faith, as you walk in it.”
And I’m glad that it is so,
For today’s enough to bear,
And I know when tomorrow comes,
His grace shall far exceed His care.
Why should I worry then, or fret,
For the God who gave His only Son,
Holds all my moments in His hand,
And gives them to me, one by one.
Prayers for you for a speedy recovery.
I am so sorry and will pray for you. I have seen firsthand how serious RA can be. My thoughts are with you.
You are young person with your whole life in front of you. From reading your bio FR, it is clear you know what it takes to be strong.
God bless you, and help you over this brief speed-bump in your life.
Bless you!
Prayers up for you and your family. Asking God for your rapid recovery and return home with your family ASAP.
Prayers that you will be healed and be able to go home.
Best of luck to you. Hope you’re out and enjoying good health soon.
My most heartfelt prayers for you and for your family.
thank you so much. its a combination of things. im incontinent and thats frustrating enough but what is a person to do when they are incontinent and cant physically reach their behind to get clean enough and change. thats getting more and more difficult
i think im making the right choice
Prayer BUMP
Prayers up for you and a speedy recovery...
I believe that nursing home care is best for you at this time!
Think of the relief of your accidents and personal hygiene taken care of by professionals, versus embarassing your family.
Think of the rest and sleep that you, and that your family will get by not thinking of your needs to be cared for in the middle of the night.
Think of the institution being able to feed you what you need to get better, rather than burdening your family with your “special” meals.
My wife’s Dad lives in an asisted care facility, then a care facility for the past few years. He, and his family have had a wonderful experience with both, as his needs have changed.
Good luck and God bless!
Do whatever you need to do, however you need to do it. Ill health knows no age. Praying that this bump on the road goes quickly and safely.
You have MY prayers...for you family too.
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