Those who seek to be understanding, patient, and rational vs. a foe that is knee-jerk, violent, and irrational are always at a distinct disadvantage. That is exactly why blacks feel so empowered to prey on whites; they consider us to be a race of wimps.
That.....needs to change and fast.
Become like them? what exactly do you propose... what needs to happen in my opinion is to stand for law and order and an orderly pursuit of justice. That may seem unpopular on all sides, but it is what must take place. We don’t give up on justice being blind, no matter the brow beating the leftists lay on us... we resist to bend toward vigilante justice and we stand our ground against black contempt for America... if they resort to burning things down, THEN, we have a God given right to protect and defend our liberties and to squelch out of control despots, fascists and anarchists.